So a little over a month ago, I went to a baseball game with this boy. He was a blind date, and as soon as I saw him, I knew he wasn’t a fuck yes for me. Nice blue eyes, but not that good looking…and call me shallow, but I don’t want to be with a guy I’m not super attracted to (I’ve done that, married one, it didn’t work out. You can’t force chemistry). But. We went to the game, I had a couple of beers, and then we made out in front of my house. He kept trying to come inside, I told him no. He was quite aggressive, but I held my ground.
I didn’t hear from him after that, just a few “how are you” texts that never led anywhere.
About a month after our date, when I hadn’t heard from him for at least a week, I got a text from him saying, “come over and let’s make out.”
I was pissed. I wanted to snap something back, but my friends agreed that ignoring was the best plan.
A couple of weeks went by, and I posted a pic of me in my bikini holding my surfboard. He immediately texted me, like, hey, you’re near my house. We exchanged a few texts, he said, “we never followed up on our date” and I said, “I never heard from you” and he said he was busy, blah, blah, we should try to get together that weekend. Then, later that night, he stated he was near my house and if I had been home, he would have stopped by…like I invited him in the first place? I was starting to get annoyed.
He never did follow through with that date (that was last weekend), but this Friday night at 10:30, I got a text from him saying “What are you doing?” Like it’s ANY of his business.
I can’t decide if I should ignore again or go off on him for even thinking he has it like that. I’m usually pretty good at ignoring, but this time, his brazenness kind of pisses me off. I have not yet responded, not sure if I’m going to or what I’m going to say…
He was a good make out boy, but I have zero desire to date him, and it absolutely pisses me off that he feels so entitled to my time…and otherwise.
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