Update

My surfer boy is taking me to the Monday Night Football game tonight. He wins at everything right now. About a month ago, I tweeted that I would know it’s true love when he gets me good seats at The Q (stadium). I also wrote it on this board I have in the living room where we write funny or meaningful quotes.

I know he saw it. Definitely on the board, maybe on Twitter (he said he was going to join and follow me. He hasn’t joined, but has made a couple of comments that lead me to believe he might be lurking). And we’re attending the game with his friends and their girlfriends.

He has yet to meet any of my friends. He was going to meet them this weekend at Octoberfest in my beach town, only he decided to go chase a swell (life of a surfer, I suppose).

Now he’s talking about attending an out of town college game with me. He wants swag from my college team, even though he’s never been a fan.

Are we getting serious?

I’ve thought about this. I like him for sure, but I’m not in love with him. I’m not sure if it’s him…or me. I’m not letting myself go there. I’m purposefully keeping other guys…meeting other guys…because I don’t want to get hurt. I’m not giving myself to him until I know. And right now, all I know is we have fun and I enjoy him.

And the chemistry is off the charts.

So. Let’s talk other guys:

Dog Park Boy: I met him at the dog park. Stunning blue eyes, but the rest of him is average. He’s very nice though. Witty. We have good conversations. Haven’t gone out yet, because he’s been out of town. I suspect we’ll meet for a doggy play date this week.

RFR: out of nowhere, he popped up last night and asked if I wanted to watch The Walking Dead. I went over, watched it, and left. He’s just a friend.

Friend: the one I beached and hooked up with this summer. He’s solidly a friend. We went to the beach together last week and I realized how much I’m not feeling him anymore.

Make-out Boy: He took me to a baseball game. We made out. He’s aggressive. But I scarcely heard from him after the date. But then 3 weeks later, he sent me a text that said “come over and let’s make out.” I ignored it, figuring we were done. Well, yesterday on FB I posted a pic of me surfing, and then he started texting, wanted to hang out. I told him I was busy, but now he’s trying to get me to commit to a date this week. I told him we’ll see. He’s aggressive and maybe pervy and not that good looking, so he’s a no.

Is that it? I think so.

I’m enjoying surfer boy’s attention the most. We have an amazing time together. He’s sweet and funny. So we’ll see…