Now that I’m dating, I should probably get in the habit of writing daily. Or more than weekly because there’s a lot going on…
Got back to SD Tuesday. Have hit the ground running. Went to the beach Wed, jumped in the water and was approached by a super hot guy. I mean like a 10. But he was younger and, despite approaching me like 3 different times, he never asked for my number. But still. To be in my bikini and be approached by a guy with a perfect body made me feel pretty damn beautiful.
Later that night I decided I wanted to go back to the beach, and I randomly decided to text a guy friend B, whom I hadn’t seen in about a year. So we rode our bikes to the beach and swam in the ocean for sunset, then went out for a beer. He is handsome and fun and a little interesting.
Went out with surfer boy Thursday. We met for drinks, then went to the beach to jump into the water, which we did, but only after making out heavily in front of kids. He wanted me to go home with him. I declined, but I was very tempted, not even trying to lie about that. It’s been over 3 months for me, I’m due. He’s supposed to be cooking me dinner Monday night. I know exactly what “dinner” means, and I’m deciding whether or not it’s going to happen. I’ve never been one for random hook-ups. On the other hand….I’m a woman with needs and I don’t necessarily want to wait anymore. Could I do a no-strings situation? I’ve never attempted before…but i kind of want to now. i have a few hours to make this decision.
pseudo cowboy finally messaged me yesterday. He’s in Hawaii at his family’s place. It’s amazing…and he intrigues me to no end. Raised by hippie parents, teacher like me, and surfer. And hot. However, I’ve been in town for a week, and he’s out of town. I leave Tuesday, he gets back Wed. I’m back in 2 weeks, and he says he’s going to take me surfing and show me around the beach town where he lives. I hope so, because he is the guy that currently holds the most interest for me.
RFR randomly messaged me yesterday to find out if I was back in town and I ended up going to a BBque at his house yesterday. As it turns out, it was all couples with their kids…and me. So maybe I was his date, I don’t even know. He was definitely flirty, touching my back, etc, but I called Boo to come get me around 10 and I went home. I do enjoy RFR’s company, and he’s super good looking, but I’m not trying to date him.
And, finally, I have a date with coffee guy today…which I’m less than excited about. I figure I’ll hang out with him this one last time and see what happens, but I don’t have my hopes up or much attachment with this one.
That’s my weekly update…I’ll try to focus more and write daily or at least more than I have been as these stories develop.